I’m not afraid of starting over because I know an amazing God that always forgives and always gives unlimited second chances.
I don’t fear the starting line because I know a perfect God that deserves all my fears, failures and future anxieties.
I have joy in new days because I know a joyful God that makes plans for all my days before me.
I’m not afraid to start again because I know a powerful God that protects me and moves mountains just for me.
I live freely in the chaos because I know a loving God that always protects comforts and loves me every day.
Thanks for reading! I hope this post reminded you that starting over doesn’t have to be a bad thing; sometimes it can lead to even greater things! It’s not always about starting over, sometimes it’s about starting again, and getting a fresh start!
You are unworthy You are alone You are never chosen You are ignored You are untalented You don’t belong You are hopeless You are stupid You are ugly You are weak You are not valuable You are nothing You are not important You are neglected You are hiding You are afraid You should give up You are a default You are a failure You don’t deserve anything You are an outcast You have no friends You are invisible You have no one You are unwanted You are worthless
But, God tells you that:
You are worthy You are valuable You are His beloved child You are unique You are kind You are chosen by the King You are talented You are filled with hope You are full of faith You are smart You are funny You are strong You are beautiful You are important You are everything to the Creator You are accepted You are brave You are bold You are His first choice You are deserving You are wanted You are popular You are worthy
And, most importantly, YOU ARE LOVED!
Thanks for reading! I hope this reminds you of your true identity, and encourages you to live in truth & freedom!
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Yes, you! I need YOU! Don’t give up now! This poem is for anyone out there going through a tough time in life right now.
Please, don’t do it!
I know you’re tired!
But, just focus on staying healthy, and keeping your mind fit!
I know it’s exhausting!
It feels like the only way out.
But, have you tried dancing, or singing?
You hear people say:
“Oh, It’s just a phase, you’ll get over it”.
But, we both know, that was so yesterday.
Every time something good happens to you,
You feel totally unworthy of it.
But, that’s definitely not true!
You are AMAZING!
You are IMPORTANT and WANTED!
Things are CHANGING! (for the better)
Life’s not always great.
Trust me, I know!
But, don’t be afraid!
You think: “This is rock bottom.
It can’t get any worse.
I probably can’t even make it to next autumn!”
But, please, erase those thoughts from your mind!
I NEED YOU – I will be your friend and give you the support you need!
I promise, I will always be kind!
So, if you’re at rock bottom now,
The only way to go is up – To the sky!
There may be rain now, but when you get up there, you’ll see a rainbow!
So, continue to hustle everyday!
Become better and happier!
Turn the black darkness to white brightness; or at least semi-bright gray!
Never give up!
I need you here!
WE need you here!
The world needs YOU! – Are we clear?
So, will you stay?
And hustle harder everyday?
I sure hope you do! And, I know many others do to! So, it’s decided. You’re staying! Trust me, you’ll look back on this day, and remember that you succeeded, In your biggest roadblock, you decided to stay! And, you hustled even though you didn’t feel like it! You didn’t give up Even during your darkest days, And that’s something to be SUPER proud of!
Thanks for reading!
I hope this poem encouraged you to keep getting better everyday, and to keep learning & growing each and every day!
I said that phrase SO MANY (more like TOO MANY) times when I was living in Chile.
Or, at least, that’s what I told myself because I thought I was getting annoying, but, turns out people didn’t mind answering my questions; and I learned so much by asking all those questions during those 3 months.
Ask all the questions you could possibly ask in a day. It’s the only way you’ll learn and remember anything!
Asking questions will get you so much farther than thinking you know everything ever will!
Was not just written overnight. It took 3 months of hard work and dedication.
You see, I lived in Chile for 3 months and asked way more than 10 questions per day about the language and culture. And, I did my best to speak Spanish as much as I could, whenever I could. And, one day, a few weeks before I was set to depart, my chilean family told me that my Spanish had improved since they first met me, months ago. And, they told me that I speak well (when I finally have enough courage to say something), which made me happy and proud of myself because it was the moment I realized it was all worth it, and that I definitely wanted to continue learning Spanish. So, I decided to write a short post to show myself how far I came in those 3 months full of questions and doubts (those questions and doubts led to fluency).
At first, I was super afraid of being judge for my accent and my knowledge of the language because whenever I didn’t know something I didn’t feel worthy to speak the language. And, so, for the first few weeks I didn’t say much, I just observed. And, soon after, I decided to start asking people about the things I didn’t know. And, whether or not I got a serious answer, I would inevitably learn something, everyday. So, I did this everyday, for 3 months. And, by the end, I was having conversations in Spanish.
I spoke Spanish.
I heard Spanish.
I saw spanish.
I listened to music in Spanish.
I watched movies in Spanish.
I participated in Spanish conversations.
I lived in a Spanish country; I lived Spanish (Chilean), for 3 months.
Instead of telling myself that I wasn’t worthy of speaking the language or that I would just be made fun of, so I shouldn’t try to learn the language; I told myself to ask at least 1 question per day (that quickly turned into 10). And, before I knew it I was becoming fluent in Spanish.
So, my point in sharing that story was to tell you that, if you ever find yourself in a situation where you feel dumb, and you feel like you’re not worthy of knowing the answer, or you’re scared of not being good enough; just start Asking all the questions and Learnsomething new everyday!
Thanks for reading! And remember:
You must strive to better yourself everyday because you’ll soon realize that, deep down, you knew the answers all along.
So, “stranger danger” can’t really be in my vocabulary anymore.
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Remember when you were young, and your parents told you not to talk to strangers? Well, that comes with a lot of terms and conditions, the biggest one being: Traveling. P.S. I’m not talking about those creepy strangers in white vans (you should definitely fear them), I mean those people that you act shy around because you don’t really know them.
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I mean, seriously, though, it’s crazy how many strangers I’ve spoken to while living here in Chile. And, for me, even just talking to people I know is sometimes difficult, but living here for 3 months has taught me that I don’t have to be so scared because people are just people and they’re not all scary.
I’ve realized that the fear I had about talking to people was stupid; I learned to just talk to people without being scared or fear of being judged.
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When I first got here, I was so nervous to meet my host-family (I thought they would hate me) and I was not at all confident in my Spanish (this didn’t help my nervousness).
But, after living here for 3 months, I’ve started to really get to know my host-family (they’re actually really nice) and I started to let the nerves go and start speaking to them and strangers in Spanish.
And, in doing those things, I’ve started to feel so much more confident when speaking to stranger and I’ve learned so much more Spanish.
At first, I was so scared of being judged for my accent in Spanish that I would barely even speak in a day. But, after a while, I started saying small sentences each day and eventually worked up the courage to start having conversations in Spanish. And, now I can actually say that I can “fluently” speak Spanish (I use fluently loosely because I still stumble with certain words, but for the most part, I can hold a successful conversation).
After getting over my fear of speaking to strangers, I had to get over my fear of being judged for my accent. And, it hasn’t been easy, but definitely worth it because now, I can say that: -I am no longer afraid to speak to strangers. AND -I can officially speak 3 languages (some much better than others, but I can still understand and be understood in all 3).
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So, all this to say that, if you ever fear public speaking (or just speaking to strangers), just remember the cliche sentence:
Nothing good ever comes from your comfort zone,
stepping out is the best decision you will ever make!
And, if you too are trying to learn a new language, here’s my best tip for you:
Learning a completely new language isn’t possible overnight,
it takes a lot of humiliation, work, perseverance and courage.
Those two things might be very difficult and seemingly impossible tasks, but, they are always worth working toward because they could change your life in so many ways.
So, next time you are faced with one of these situations, remember:
Thanks for reading!
I hope this post inspired you to go conquer your dreams!
In today’s post, I’m going to give you 15 things to think about before going abroad.
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Don’t be afraid of going abroad!
Don’t think about what you’ll be leaving behind, think about what you’ll get to experience. (you will learn and gain much more than you will be leaving behind)
There’s a big chance that the climate will be different (do some research before packing). This will make your experience abroad much more enjoyable.
Don’t think about what it’s going to be like too much. Let yourself be surprised by things. It will make your experience much more enjoyable, and you will be more open-minded, which will help you learn even more.
Enjoy the journey there, at least as much as being in the country because you might even learn something on the trip there (in the airport or in the bus/plane).
Learn some important words/phrases in the local language. Not everyone will speak your language, and you might want to be able to speak to people instead of always acting things out.
Charades is fun at the beginning of your trip, but later on you will want to be able to say something, so just learn a few things before you leave (this also makes it easier to learn more while in the country).
Don’t be afraid to speak the local language (it will be one of your most valuable memories, especially if you make a funny mistakes).
A foreign language is an amazing assets to have to show future employers. (every mistakes you make while learning will be worth it).
Culture shock is real (but not scary). It just means that you are aware of your new surroundings and you are adjusting. During the culture shock phase, you can learn a lot about yourself and the country.
Don’t plan too much (just go out and explore anything and everything).
Don’t be too much of a tourist (speak to locals, ask them about fun things they like to do).
Don’t take too many pictures (unless you’re a travel photographer). Try to live in the moment and capture the important things.
Try to overcome jet-lag as soon as possible. This will make your trip (long or short) much more enjoyable.
Stay connected with friends and family back home (talk to them at least once a week). It will make culture shock less painful, and you will be able to tell them the exciting things that you experience the day of, instead of waiting until you get back (but save some stories to tell them about in person).
And, lastly, answer this question: WHY are you going abroad?
Thanks for reading! I hope this post encourages you to travel abroad & take advantage of your next adventure abroad!
Wow! That went by quick! 2 weeks to living in Chile-in the books! I can’t believe it’s already, and only, been two weeks. It doesn’t feel like it’s been that long, but yet, it also feels like I’ve done so much.
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This year (2018) has already been a crazy year, all about doing strange & fascinating things (and it’s still only January)!
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From: Listening to people speak so fast in Spanish. To: Living in another country (alone). Not a thing about this year has been normal (compared to all the past year’s of my life).
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Seriously, though, listening to people speak another language has become so fascinating to me because they do it with such ease (obviously I know it’s their native language), yet for me to follow along, takes a lot(and I mean an extra amount) of effort.
And, every time I listen to people speak Spanish, it’s so fascinating to think that that’s how I sound to them when I speak English.
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And, as if listening wasn’t hard enough, when I think I know what they’re talking about, I’m usually wrong because I missed an important word or part of the conversation.
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Living here in Chile is like being a kid all over again and needing to start over at 0 & learn how to speak all over again & train my ears to listen to a foreign language as if it’s normal.
But, I’ve asked myself this question multiple times since living here:
“Exactly, how, do you learn & become fluent in a completely new language as an adult?”
And, if you came here for answers, I’m sorry but I’m still figuring out the answer myself, but I can say:
Part of it is because our brain isn’t as fresh as it was when we were babies, so it’s harder for you to soak up and retain things & catch on to the tones in peoples voices.
So, you end up having a slight accent when you speak because that’s what you grew up hearing and that’s what your brain thinks words should sound like. And because you have an accent, you feel subconscious about speaking, in fear of being made fun of. And because of that fear, you just don’t speak, and you never practice, and you never learn.
So, what I’m trying to say is, that if you are trying to learn a new language:
Don’t be afraid to speak it because that’s truly the only way you will even come close to fluency in that language.
But, let me warn you, it will take a long time.
But, it will definitely be worth it!
Thanks for reading! Now get out there and go learn a new language & don’t give up on it!
Hey you! I know you think that your life’s not going super great right now, and I wish I could tell you all the mistakes I’ve made, all the mistakes you will make, all the pain you will feel and just everything to help you have a perfect life & be one step ahead. I would tell you how everything’s going to turn out. I would tell you exactly what to do. I would tell you that your life is never going to be perfect. I would tell you that you are always going to be different. I would tell you how to live your perfect and best life.
I would give you all the answers you want to hear!
But, to be honest, I still don’t have all the answers.
Instead, I’m just going to tell you to never be afraid; just be you and make your life decisions to the best of your abilities and knowledge because that will make you happy and it will create a life you will be proud of. If you make your own decisions, you will create your life and no one else’s and that will make you proud and happy.
There’s nothing I could tell you that will change your life because the decisions you make today will make the future you, YOU.
Life is a series of decisions we make and those decisions impact who we become; decisions are an important part of our life journey. Stop trying to create the perfect life for yourself, just start winging it and making the decisions you think are best for you in this moment.
~Don’t be afraid to make choices because they are what make you unique and create an amazing life for yourself.~
I know that right now, you might think that you need all the answers so you don’t mess up, but let me tell you that whatever happens is not your fault.
Ya, sure it was your decision that led you here, but that doesn’t mean you made a mistake. Every decision you make will help you learn and make you better, which will help you make even better decisions in the future. Don’t let your past mistakes scare you from making great future decisions; you are making the decisions that you believe are right and those decisions will give you the life you deserve and have created for yourself. Don’t let life scare you, just keep living it one day at a time; and I promise, one day you’ll look back and wonder how you got here.
Every decision you make is leading you to a different situation that you don’t know anything about, so you can’t possibly know what to do, but don’t be scared. The unknown future doesn’t have to be scary, it can actually be quite exciting, just don’t stress!
~Your life is not a mistake.~
~The decisions you made to get here were not mistakes!~
~Every decision you make is a step forward, even if it doesn’t feel like it in the moment!~
I know, it might seem scary to have so much control over your life, but if you’re ever in a funk about making decisions, just remember to think about the life you want and deserve, and make your decisions based on that, because you know deep down what you really deserve and what you really want.
You got this!
You can do it!
You are amazing!
Just look how far you’ve come; You’re doing great!
Okay, now that you know you’re doing great, stop looking back at how far you’ve come, it’s good encouragement but, you need to start looking at all the amazing things you have left to accomplish! Start making those amazing decisions!
Future you, that realizes that her life turned out pretty GREAT!
Thank You for all your hard work and for never giving up! 🙂
I’m tired of feeling stuck! I want to travel & experience new & different things!
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I’m tired of living in this bubble of what I know about the world. I am starting to get tired of my comfort zone (I think this is a sign that I need to change something). I want to travel & explore the world because I want to learn more about the unknown.
The bubble that I live was a great place to grow up in, but, now I am ready to grow/change outside of my comfort zone.
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After the few trips abroad that I’ve taken, I now realize that everyone should try & grow outside of their comfort zone because it’s the only way to truly learn who you are, while also learning that the safe bubble you currently live in is not an accurate representation of yourself and the world. There’s a whole world out there waiting for you to discover it & learn the truth about yourself and the world you live in!
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Sometimes we need to let go & move on; away from what we know because there’s so much that we still don’t know. We must travel & see new things to keep growing!
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Some people will say that they grow during different seasons of their life, but I know (from experience), that it’s a different type of growth. You see, growing inside your comfort zone during a different period in your life is vastly different than growing outside your comfort during different periods in your life.
When you grow outside of your comfort zone, in the unknown, you are not only growing during a different period in your life, you are learning, growing, exploring and realizing that you are different than you thought.
You are growing during a different period in your life in a completely new environment.
If you’re scared to step out into the unknown, you need to realize that being scared means that you’re too comfortable where you are and should really considerstepping out. And, if you’re scared because you don’t know what will happen, that’s perfect! That’s why it’s called “the unknown”, you shouldn’t know what’s going to happen next. That’s what makes stepping out into the next chapter of your life so exciting; you are completely oblivious to what will happen next (just like traveling; you can plan a trip as much a you want, but when you arrive at your destination your plans could change drastically, & there’s nothing you can do about it, it will inevitably happen). But, that’s what makes traveling so exciting (at least, for me), going with the flow & living in the moment.
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Anyways, all this to say: Please don’t be afraid of the unknown! I know it can be scary at first, but who knows what can happen if you just take that step you’ve always been scared to take! The only way to find out is to:
Step out into the unknown!
Thank for reading! I hope this post encouraged you in some way! Now, get out there and: