Overthinking…

Does the future give you anxiety? Do you feel stressed about little things? Do you feel like you’re not really living? Everything around you just happens, and you feel like you have no control over any of it?

These questions usually come up when you are overthinking something for too long. This gives you a feeling of not knowing what to do anymore because OVERTHINKING causes DOUBT!

AND…

“DOUBT KILLS DREAMS MORE THAN FAILURE EVER WILL!”

Let me get things straight:

  1. You know that failing is part of life.
  2. Everyone fails.
  3. It helps you improve.

So, knowing all these things are true: Why is it that, when you doubt yourself, you get scared of failure?

Well, I don’t exactly know the right answer to that question, but I can tell you that YOU SHOULD NEVER DOUBT YOURSELF WHEN YOU KNOW SOMETHING IS IMPORTANT TO YOU!

While you follow your dreams, you will fail (multiple times), but if you never doubt yourself, you will get there one day. And, that day will be the happiest day of your life!

Thanks for reading!

-Live For Adventure! πŸ™‚

Looking forward..

Ever feel overwhelmed about “finding your purpose”?

Well, good news! Your ‘ikigai’ is always evolving!

ikigai: A Japanese concept, that means; “a reason for being”, it is very similar to the French phrase; “Raison d’Γͺtre”. Everyone has an ikigai. Finding it requires a deep and often lengthy search of self during a long period of trials (storms). But, is it worth?

Well, I can tell you that, none of us know what we want to do our *entire life* (uh, no pressure). We find what fulfills us in small and big moments along the way. You’re working towards something big, at this very moment. Make time for what makes you πŸ™‚.

You might not know where anything you do will bring you, but trust me, it will be something great.
What do you see after a huge rain storm? -a beautiful, bright and colorful rainbow! 🌈
And, What do you see at the end of that rainbow? -a pot of gold! πŸ’°

-I guess, what I’m trying to say is that after all the trials you face in life you will be rewarded with something great! Just remember; through the trials you will learn great lessons!
Everything you are going through right now won’t lasts forever and it will lead you to something amazing, something you could never imaging! Be patient and embrace where you are now because amazing things are ahead!Β πŸ™‚

-Live for Adventure! ✈

 

Define

I don’t always believe in myself. I feel like I’m not good enough. Why do others seem much happier than me? Why do I feel disappointed with myself? How can I be truly happy?

If you’ve ever asks yourself one of those questions, chances are; you let others (bullies) define who you really are, and you don’t believe in yourself.

You are afraid of being yourself!

One thing you can do is; ask yourself: Is it worth it?
Do you really think that worrying about what others (bullies) think is worth your time. (in my experience, it’s really not worth any of your time because if you want real friends you should be yourself). People that like you for you, are more likely to be a good friend.

If you ever feel like you’re being judged, just remember: You are not alone!
If you ever feel alone, look at the positive and ignore the negative. I know, it’s a cliche but it’s the secret to being happy. The more positive things you notice in your life, the better you will feel about yourself and the less the ‘bullies’ will hurt you. Positive things don’t have to be life changing, they can be as simple as; listening to your favorite song on the radio or smiling at a stranger and them smiling back.

  • If you’ve ever felt judged for being you; post something in the comments.
    Lets encourage each other! Don’t let others (bullies) scare you! Remind others that they are Not alone!

You should never be afraid because your difference is the difference

We live in a time where to be yourself is hard

And the way you really feel can leave you emotional scarred

But stay strong, stand firm and never back down

Being yourself is the only way to act

Trust me, I’m a fighter…

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No one should be afraid to be themselves; if everyone was the same person, the world would be kind of boring (think about it). That’s why You should always be You. Differences are what keep the world interesting. Don’t let others (bullies) define you!

You are the best You ever!

Remember: YOU are AMAZING! πŸ™‚

If you would like more encouragement, Contact me!
I would be happy to send you some encouraging messages that have helped me!

Thanks for reading! Hope this inspired and encouraged you!

-Live for Adventure! πŸ™‚

Something More..

There’s gotta be something more
Gotta be more than this
I need a little less hard time
I need a little more bliss
I’m gonna take my chances
Taking a chance I might
Find what I’m looking for
There’s gotta be something more

What do I do for the rest of my life? How do I know it’s for me? How do I make a difference? How can I do what I love while being happy? I want to do something great, but how? There’s gotta be something more for me?

Chances are if you’ve ever asked yourself one of those questions, you want to do something more with your life.
Well, my friend, if you would like to continue reading, you might (hopefully) find something interesting and helpful, Happy reading!

Before I start I would just like to remind you that your future is up to you. It doesn’t have to be something Life Changing, it can be as simple as walking around your city with a smile and saying hi to people.

Tip #1: Know that whatever you do is solely your choice and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Whatever you choose to do with your life should make you happy and proud of yourself. Remember: Doing what you love will take a lot of hard work and dedication at first to convince people that you are 100% in it. Once other people realize that you are in it 100% they will understand.

Tip #2: Make sure you choose something you love and the rest will follow. (don’t choose your future based on money, follow your dream!)

Tip #3: Don’t wait until you get step by step instructions about what you should do.
And don’t use ‘waiting’ as an excuse to not do anything. If you want to do something you love for the rest of your life you have to start following your dream right now!

Tip #4: Ask yourself the following questions and you’re sure to do something more (you will love your future and it will reward you):

  • What makes you angry?
  • What keeps you up at night?
  • What problem in the world needs to be solved, in your eyes? (and makes you say somebody has got to do something about that) The restlessness in your heart is what will call you to action and make you start today.
  • What am I good at? or What are my gifts? What do other people say that I’m good at? (these don’t have to be big skills)

Tip #5: Once you know the answers to the previous questions, you have to combine them; using what you’re good at to make a difference in the thing that makes you angry.

Your life is Yours to live so, just REMEMBER; Always Work towards Your dream and You’re sure to be doing Something More with Your life!

-Live for Adventure! πŸ™‚